Comments on: i really thought it was over: my stalker returns http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/ Just another WordPress.com site Tue, 14 May 2013 13:58:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: carolynquinn http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11606 Wed, 30 Jan 2013 19:28:26 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11606 I just wanted to add, if I could…I realize this situation is atrociously bad, but there’s a lot of people on here who keep talking about shooting the guy. He was emailing me, too, and it did get excessive, but…shooting? There’s got to be a better way than threatening to go that far. Just sayin’.

]]> By: Shelshiya http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11560 Tue, 29 Jan 2013 17:30:51 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11560 Miss Presser, I would like to tell you something, if it would be helpful..its that, your posts are likely to make an outsider who reads it feel that you are scared of your stalker. And this is enough to make your stalker take advantage over you. The more you react to the tortures of his, the more you would get messages from him. Its great that you have let the police know about this. And I request you to be least bothered about him. The least importance you give him in your posts, you will feel more releaved.

]]> By: arlynnpresser http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11485 Fri, 25 Jan 2013 22:06:42 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11485 you and don have particularly good insight into things!

]]> By: carolynquinn http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11484 Fri, 25 Jan 2013 22:05:21 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11484 Wow! I didn’t see this before when I posted the second part of my message, but wow! Yes! The co-worker I had possessed criminal tendencies. I don’t, so I was “the enemy.”

]]> By: arlynnpresser http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11483 Fri, 25 Jan 2013 21:46:36 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11483 ditto!

]]> By: Diaa http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11482 Fri, 25 Jan 2013 21:42:46 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11482 You are amazing and I hope I meet you someday

]]> By: carolynquinn http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11481 Fri, 25 Jan 2013 20:29:29 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11481 I was going to add earlier (but got interrupted) that I’m not necessarily saying anything like what I described with my crazed co-worker would happen with regard to the guy who’s been hounding ArLynn. However, it’s best to disengage from over-the-top types as quickly as possible. The crazed co-worker was terrified of abandonment and always saying so – but hey, if someone wants people to stay in their life, for starters, they clean their act up and don’t run around punching people, or scaring them, either.

]]> By: Don Wainwright http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11480 Fri, 25 Jan 2013 19:55:06 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11480 BPD’s don’t process kind and reasonable (although they can fake it); you’re either aligned with their interests (that doesn’t mean you’re their friend) or you’re their enemy. It’s important that you identify and isolate them. Once they know that you know what they are (sociopaths); they’ll give you a wide berth since they know that they’ve lost their camoflage and the advantage that they have over their victims who are operating within the rules of civility.

It goes very much against our Judeo-Christian values of extending the qualities of mercy and kindness to all when we have to withdraw from civil engagement but I’m here to tell you that there is real evil in the world and BPD’s are the delivery vehicles. You have to confront evil with all of the resources that are available to you.

]]> By: carolynquinn http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11475 Fri, 25 Jan 2013 17:17:58 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11475 I tried, many years ago, to be kind and reasonable to an absolutely impossible co-worker who was rumored to have Borderline Personality Disorder. I wound up getting slugged.

]]> By: arlynnpresser http://arlynnpresser.com/2013/01/21/i-really-thought-it-was-over-my-stalker-returns/#comment-11456 Thu, 24 Jan 2013 19:32:26 +0000 http://arlynnpresser.com/?p=4251#comment-11456 many thanks george!

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