some facebook friends are just that–facebook friends. some are people you’re close to emotionally and you keep in touch with videos and pictures and snappy movie quotations. but some facebook friends are with you every day. . .
i see chris treiber every day. he works in winnetka at the community house where i lift weights and run on the treadmill. the weight room is in the lower level and i have a brief anxiety attack about going down into the basement to lift. that has never left me and i’m not sure why. so i only lift weights a few times a week.
chris has to go to the weight room every day, training people–a lot of his clients are people who are recovering from injuries. he said about this project that he wanted to introduce me to his first love. the mystery was compelling:
i declined to try the tree. interestingly, this house where chris grew up was built by his grandfather and chris’ mom still lives in it.
chris grew up when kids didn’t have “organized sports” — you just went out and played. but chris now trains kids at basketball camp on the side. he taught me to do a layup. i’m not going to be recruited by uconn but i did okay.
think about the friends you see every day. should you spend more time with them? i’m about to head out to ohio to see a friend i haven’t seen in three years. without facebook, i think that friendship would have withered and died.