so i’ve been having a wonderful year of meeting facebook friends. i didn’t meet all 325 of the friends i had as of january 2011, but i got ninety percent of the way there.

some of my friends didn't have time or resources to respond to my request to see them. this dude wrote "harbinger of doom" and is a fan of my grandfather fritz leiber. i never saw him this year although i tried!
one of the things i appreciate most about libby hellmann (f2fb friend #7) is that she showed up! it was january of last year. i told her my resolution to meet all my facebook friends. she was a facebook friend. i said i wanted to spend some time with her. it took some faith on her part to take part in my resolution when there was no way of telling whether i’d complete it.

i like index cards, datebooks, and lists. libby is on this list as one of the first friends i saw last year. if you have a new years resolution, get some index cards, get some organization, figure out what you have to do each day to get closer to your goal.
so last year, right around this time, we met at a restaurant in northfield called seul’s and spent a happy few friendship hours. i made a video. i posted a blog. she was f2fb friend #7–if i was going to finish up 325 friends i just had 317 more to go. she had faith in me.
today we met at the same restaurant because she wanted to celebrate the completion of my project. the restaurant is now called stormy’s. the interior is well decorated. libby looks great. she is off to cuba because her newest book is set there and she needs to do research. and i realized how wonderful every one of my facebook friends has been to me!
one of the things i appreciate about libby is that she was an early supporter. if you have a new years resolution you need to find your early supporters. you need to find the friends who say “you can do it”. you do have friends who might not give you that support but they might later. there are friends we need at all stages of what we do.
facebook is set to open itself up to investors with what’s going to be the largest public offering ever. mark zuckerberg is going to be a very wealthy and since he’s the dude who set this thing up in his dorm room in 2004 i think he deserves a big paycheck. but. . .
January 17th, 2012 at 5:10 am
I like your suggestions of concrete ways to make a resolution come to fruition.
January 17th, 2012 at 12:03 pm
thank you and i hope to do even better in the future! and everyone should read veronicasgarden.wordpress.com it’s one of my favorite blogs!
January 17th, 2012 at 11:20 pm
Oh, thank you for the plug!
January 17th, 2012 at 11:35 pm
always sweetpea, you are a great writer and great read!