i’d always like to believe i’m more competent than i am, but there are limits. i have a car with a dead battery in the knauz dealership hospital. i have a flip camera that is acting quite temperamental. i have a phone that keeps telling me that i have a sm card problem.
but here’s the thing: i made a new year’s resolution to meet and spend time with every one of my facebook friends. i am acting on that resolution every day–i am writing from chapel hill where i am with the eastman daughters julie and susan as well as julie’s husband mike.
the eastman family is very special to me. i ran away from home when i was fifteen and i ended up in some unsavory circumstances. but when i came out of that hellishness, i ended up going to north central college in naperville. i met dick eastman, who was chairman of the english department, and his wife vivian. the couple invited me into their lives as friends. it was a friendship that only ended a few years ago with their deaths. their daughters have been kind enough to open their lives to me as sisters.
i have been awake for nineteen hours. i’m tired. i feel like a failure because there’s no video to share, no pictures i can post. but i did what i was supposed to do, which is i got on the plane, i got off the plane, i made it to chapel hill. i have come very far since i made the resolution–and i have a very long way to go!
and one last time–happy birthday to my son and facebook friend eastman!
April 15th, 2011 at 1:30 am
Arlynn, you need to know how much your project is inspiring other people — not to repeat your own project, but to conquer their own fears and honestly admit their frustrations — in public — and to just get up and get along with it. Life is a game of imperfect. You are a warrior.
April 15th, 2011 at 3:26 pm
THANK YOU MR. FIANCE!!! you faced so many great hazards with aplomb–you have inspired generations. and your biographer is a very very very compassionate man. you shouldn’t be so down on him!